Such a good question..
I know being a teenager is not easy; you stop being a kid and you start to become an adult, in my opinion it's a nice stage of our lives because we start to discover our true identity and there's no other way to do that. Sometimes you feel on top of the world because you think you've climbed the highest mountain (It can be because of love, friendship, school or any kind of personal achievement) and you think you're mature enough to survive for the rest of your life but things can also be quite hard from time to time especially when you realize that your personality can be quite silly or inappropriate, this is not always bad because that's why we are all different. So all we have to do is learn how to behave during certain situations so that we don't freak out because of an unexpected results and that's what being a teenager is all about. Some people might learn this faster and it's not bad because it depends on our past I mean we all go through different experiences as kid and those are the one which make this "process" faster.
I don't want to sound like a psychologist or a dad but it's just that sometimes it's kinda hard for me to remember that, I consider myself as a mature person -I don't need to smoke loads of cigarettes or get drunk until I throw up just like most of my mates did yesterday at a party- and well sometimes I think "Why can't I think like them so that I can drunk like they do?" and well the answer might be quite obvious because they don't have all the "problems" that I have (In terms of sexuality for example) and if they have problems they try to escape from them by getting drunk which isn't the correct option.
(As posted before on my blog, this picture of my 5 year old birth-day party. I'm dressed up as Aladdin because he was my fave Disney character, I posted it because when was that age I didn't need to worry about ANYTHING but of course I didn't know how special can life be even if you're not able to live it the way you want to live it)
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early maturity rocks - it is always a good excuse for the odd spurt of immaturity! LOL
HUHAU that's right Ben! *feels glad about having a mature friend* :P
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