A part of the real Charles was unleashed today!
Today after I finished my exam I went to the house of one of my female friends because supposedly we would start to study for the exam that we have on Monday, all of them girls, none had thier notes complete and as usually I did have all the notes. Anyway as soon as we arrived to her home we started to talk with her mum about our childhood memories (All of us have studied in the same school since we were almost babies) and then two of my friends started to talk about the "problems" they have with their boyfriends, both of them think that they are cheating on them, so the mum of my friend and me started to give them a lot of advices and well both girls felt really comfortable talking with me that one of them hugged me and said it was really nice from me to act in that way (Something a guy's not supposed to do :P). I told them that they should always tell their boyfriends how do they feel and that they should value themselves, out talk was so deep that well I think at a certain point they kinda forgot about the only male there (Me) that they would say things like "Us, girls, ..." and well of course I wasn't mad because I know I'm not like any straight guy so it was ok with me and they didn't realize about that :P I think everything was ok until we were having lunch and they asked me who do I fancy, I felt really nervous and I said "No-one" but just before saying that I was about to say the name of a fit guy who also goes to the same school but thankfully my lips remained sealed, now that I think about I should've have invented I fancy a girl so that they don't suspect I'm gay because maybe I "showed off" my personality a lot today but well as far as I know they only think I'm a true gentleman and don't even think about me as a gay guy and at a certain point it's ok because one of them told me and another friend that she hates gay because "They're disgusting" and if she already suspect I'm gay she would've stopped talking to me a long time ago.
I think it was a nice experience because I really had a good time and we laughed a lot but over all I think I felt ok because I didn't have to preend to be a MAN as if I was with some of my male "friends".
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5 Comments:
sounds like a fun day; though you seem to have a lot of pre-conceived ideas about what a man whould or shouldn't be
...just be yourself!
I agree with Ben - just be yourself and try not to worry what people may or may not perceive.
Glad you were able to give some advice to your friends, and that's really important - that you can be there for others.
You know how I am thinking about this subject ;) But you did a great job with giving your friends advice, you'd make a good psychologist ;)
hey sounds like you had a great day! hope to speak to you on msn soon!! xx
Thanks a lot for your comments guys, I do have pre-cponvinced idea about how a man should be 'cos it's the way it goes here but well I hope that can change.
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