Could this be good?

Yesteday while I was online I had my mobile beside me as it usually happens and well to my surprise I received a text message from a gay friend who lives in Mexico city (30 min of my city) and it said something cute like "Hey little boy hope you have a great week-end, I hope to see you soon, kisses" . I was really happy because it's the first time that I have that kinda "contact" with a gay friend, he has a boyfriend who also lives near and the 3 of us have agreed on meeting next year when I start Uni in Mexico city (I really hope I can pass the exam next Feb.) they're huge Spice fans which is nice because not a lot of guys are still fans over here. They're really nice friends and I can't wait to meet them.
On the other hand I also met another gay guy who lives in my city via Gaydar and well we talked on MSN for a couple of min. before I had lunch; we exchanged our mobile numbers as well and during the evening/night he tried to call me 3 times and he left two voice messages (Which I wasn't able to listen); I didn't answer whenever he was trying to call me because I was a bit scared not only because it would be the first time that I talk with a gay guy because besides that I don't know him and I'm not sure about his intentions I mean I don't have pics on my Gaydar profile and he has loads of naked pics of himself which makes me think he only wants to "use" me anyway I'm not sure about this so I'll talk with him next time he's online and I'll try to get to know him little by little, he's more than 20 (I don't know his exact age) I think that age difference is not an obstacle but well I'm not sure about his personality so I'll be really careful. I was really shocked when he tried to call me because since me and my sister were helping my parents to decorate our house with x-mas stuff I felt that 2 opposite parts of my world were crashing, the kid part which made me think about believing in Santa Claus and reminded me about all the times I've decorated our house with x-mas stuff in the past with my family and the grown-up gay part which is happening right now.

Lovely Will Young (Dressed in a nice winter outfit outside the studio where he reorded Band Aid 20 single with other artists in 2004) telling me to stop and be careful about meeting gay guys over here 'cos things are not always pink and mean people can cheat on me.