So... I'm affraid girls :S hahaha
As I said a few days ago yesterday I had my interview with the Uni psychologist and I have to say it wasn't as bad as I expcted it to be.
As you might already imagine I talked with her about my personality but not focusing on the sentimental side, we talked about my "friends" who just care about getting drunk and exchanging gossip just to talk about other people so she realised that I was doing the correct thing by not hanging out that much with them but at a certain point she told me "You're just too mature you have to go a little bit down - stop being so mature ?- or go a little bit up by finding friends who are older than you, just make sure they're real friends but don't remain the way you are right now", I must say those words were a bit harsh for me because well I don't think my personality is wrong I mean I like the way I am but well maybe she's right, she's a psychologist after all.
I think everything was ok until she asked me "Have you ever had a gf?" and I replied with a big smile "NO" haha so she started to question me about it and I said "Well it's just that right now I'm not interested in having a gf because I've learnt that you need to know yourself first so that you can be loved afterwards" and silly excuses that I thought about while I was there because I really didn't want to tell her I'm gay so after more questions about it she told me that I'm affraid of going out with girls because I fear I might start a relationship with them and stuff like that so I just said something like "OH well I dunno I just don't want a gf right now" and she said "Just stop being so strict with your persnality and invite that girl that fancies you to the movies" (I told her about this girl who has been "stalking" me during the last weeks 'cos she likes me) aand I just said "Oh ok " but of course inside I was just thinking "Why can't u just guess I'm gay so that u stop saying all those things"
LOL I wonder how could Mr. Young bear all that pressure b4 he came out
posted by charles-oi @ Saturday, February 24, 2007
6 Comments:
oooh - i hate people poking their noses in where they're not wanted!
Yeah :( I mean why do they care about me, if they really knew me they'd think I'm a weirdo so they should just mind their own business.
You know, psychologists aren't allowed to make up conclusions in a first meeting. Really stupid and I don't think it's a good psychologist you talked to.
I mean, thats rule numer one..
Never make up conclusions too early. That way you're creating the problems of your clients, lol
wow that's really good to know mate, thank you very much for telling me. In a certain way I still feel a bit weird but well maybe it's all true so I don't really know how to react.
Why don't you tell her about your sexuality? As long as its in total confidence of course.
Meanwhile, I've known a few people who have been so grown up during their youth that they never got around to doing the things typical young people do. Most go on to become sensible adults, someremain dull into their old age.
I just hope you get to enjoy the precious youthful years before responsibility and work cramp out imagination and adventure......
I didn't tell her about my sexuality 'cos well things over here are quite different in those terms so I don't want to risk my pass to Uni.
I know it's not that good to be that mature, that's why I feel so sad but honestly I just can't change; I just hope I can handle this the right way.
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