charles-oi

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Saturday, April 07, 2007

It's all done!

As I posted some days ago I was planning top tell my parents that I'm gay and well... it's done now.

I'm happy about this 'cos things were not bad, my parents said they still love me no matter what. The only thing I don't really like is that my dad thinks I'm still confused "'Cos I'm still starting to turn into a teenager" :S :S but well at a certain point I understand him 'cos maybe it's not easy for him to understand it and thinks I might change but well as I told him I know who I am. My mum also told me that I should never change and that I shouldn't feel depressed (I told 'em about all my depression problems) but well that is just a bit impossible 'cos even though they know it now I know that my life will still be pretty much the same but anyway it's a step that would be given anytime and I'm glad I've done it.
My parents also told me that I shouldn't feel bad 'cos I'm not like the other guys, they also metioned that they know I'm quite smart and that I will achieve great things, dad compared me with my brother and said that he only focuses on shallow things and it might be true but that made me feel a bit bad for him because even though we don't have the best relaationship ever I accept him as he is and I don't think my dad should compare us just to make me feel better, anyway I feel better now and not because of the words of my dad, I feel better cos this was something really important for ´me and I feel proud of who I am, I'm not ashamed of being the guy I am, and I strongly believe that we can always make our life a bit better no matter how difficult it seems to be.



3 of them are like me :P (UK boyband "V")

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6 Comments:

At 7:41 AM, Blogger robmacca said...

Wow Charles, I had no idea you were about to tell your parents - but I'm so happy you have been able to and they have supported you for being who you are.

Maybe now you can really be the person you have felt you had to hide before.

Knowing they still love you for who you are makes a big difference and hopefully will help in the other area's of your life that you had been worried about before.

Well done :-)

 
At 10:57 AM, Blogger charles-oi said...

Thank you veyr much Rob, I didn't have an idea about it either but I just felt like the right time had come, I was having really serious problems.

 
At 1:54 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

you already know that im proud of you! lol i didnt know 3 of V were gay.. i heard about one though... i thought he was/is dating Mark from Westlife?

 
At 7:36 AM, Blogger muse-ic said...

Good stuff Charles, I hope the rest of your life now begins to take speed now that you feel free.

 
At 5:25 AM, Blogger Unknown said...

this is fantastic charlie !!! i'm so proud of you, it's a HUGE step and 'we' all know how it feels. congrats hun ! *hugs*

 
At 7:29 AM, Blogger charles-oi said...

Thank you very much guys, my life isn't at it best now but well at least that's like a weight off my shoulders. Yeah one of them is dating Mark Westlife.

 

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