Something quite funny

Raúl is one of my freinds, he's one of the guys that's always talking bad about people who dress in a non-fashion way, who have a different body, who act in a mature way (just to metion some examples).. and well almost everyone knows about his attitude so they also say bad things abbout him of call him fagget 'cos he talks in weird way (I'm not syaing it in a bad way) and well the funny thing about this is that he has some problems with his self-esteem so he is always getting upset 'cos of all the things people say about him :S and since we've known eachother for 7 years now he always tells me about how bad it makes him feel and he starts to talk bad about that people 'cos it's the way he tries to takes revenge of them and well since he knows I don't talk bad about people who are differnet - One of the reasons he calls me "old bitter man" :( - I always tell him he shouldn't care about what they say because no-one is perfect and besides that he needs to be sure of who he is without feeling bad 'cos of external comments.

So a few days ago he asked me if I was going to a party organised by a girl who seemed to like me, we work in team jobs together and her friends are also nice with me, and wlel I told him I wasn't invited (Which is the truth) and I told him. "I just don't get it, I'm always friendly with her and I see her a friend 'cos she's mature and not 2-faced but she didn't invite me, I don't know why do a lot of people think I'm false or just doubt I'm a nice guy" (I was shocked) and he told me "You have always taught me that I shouldn't care about wat people think of me as long as I'm happy with me" and well it was funny 'cos I do think that and I have that mentality but the thing is that I find it sad, I mean I'm always friendly with her and her friends and they are the same with me but she didn't incite me... and she invited Raúl who's the one that talks bad about her :S but well after thinking about this I've realised I shouldn't really care about it even if it's sad 'cos I am me and well if people don't like me I can't do nothing... at least I know I won't act like Raul just to have more "friends" however the fact that Rúl told me I had taught him not to care about other people's comments was nice for me.. 'cos it made me see he really appreciates my advices and that makes me feel good 'cs I always try to help him.

Hehe this is a pic of Raúl and me pretending to be workers, I really like it, if u notice something weird in him it's 'cos his nose was swollen since he had just had it done ... he didn't like his orginal nose